The long awaited video by Alli Trippy was posted on her channel tonight. Why the wait? She said, “I just wanted to give it some time so I could collect my thoughts and I guess, give you guys time to process it and everything that is going on.”
She has responded to the revelations about the divorce between herself and Charles Trippy, telling fans, “This wasn’t just an over night decision. I know it all seemed really sudden and in the Vlogs we really tried to keep a lot of negativity out of them. So I think that is why a lot of you guys said you never saw it coming. You feel it was really abrupt and really rushed, but basically this was a long time coming.”
To the claims that Alli was the one to cause the split she said, “There is never just one person to blame in these situations, there is never just one situation or event that was the catalyst for all of this. ” She went on to reveal that not all was as picture perfect as it seemed from even before the wedding, stating, ” I personally have had feelings that were uncertain, and you know we have had arguments and things like that even before we were married. So it’s really not..it’s not rushed, basically.”
As devoted fans would know the travelling schedule between Charles and Alli is at times hectic because of Charle’s band, We The Kings, constantly being on the road and Alli travelling for work around the world. She admitted, “It becomes difficult when you have two people that are pretty busy and who are constantly away from each other. It just becomes difficult to work on those things.
Many fans from the get go displayed their anger that the now ex-couple didn’t reveal the news together. Alli responded that, ” Charles made his video because he wanted to and he has made certain choices and decisions, all of which are his right and I respect that. He wanted to do the video alone and so he did.”
As for the juicy details of why they are splitting, Alli explained “I’m not going to go into details really about who said what? And who did what? Because none of that stuff is important now.” Always the optimist in her videos, Alli stated, “The most important thing now is that we are both able to move on and be successful and be happy in our lives, whether together or apart. We both wanted those things for one another from the beginning and now it looks as though we are going to have to do that apart.”
From the outset vicious rumours of Alli’s infidelity were raised and in her video she responded by saying, ” I’m never going to make a video defending myself about any rumours that were said because the people that know me know the truth and I know the truth and thats the only thing that matters quite frankly.
With many of the comments heating up on all social networking mediums, Alli declared, ” I’m going to continue to support Charles, should he ever ask anything of me, like without question.”
Opinions and accusations have been flaring between fans so Alli advised fans, “I would just encourage you guys to be respectful to one another. You can say whatever you want about me and the situation. It’s a free country, but I would just hope that you would just think before you be rude to someone else because you don’t know their situation and that is basically the point.”
“I love you guys a lot, thank you for sticking through my ramblings. I don’t what i’m going to be doing.” Don’t worry though Alli is going to continue with her own channel despite her departure from CTFxC, remarking that she isn’t sure she wants to daily Vlog anymore. Ending on a positive note she said, “I’m happy we are going to be happy.”
Now that both sides of the story are officially out for fans to hear, the question to be raised is, do we become too obsessed and invest too much time in other people’s lives? Or are these people to blame for putting their lives out for everyone to analyse? You decide. Let me know in the comments below.